Love Addiction

I have watched "grey's anatomy" about a couple weeks ago and in that episode meredith grey talk about addiction. Hmm..being addict it some situation that most people would not like to be in that situation. Not to mention, it is not juz drug that causing us being addict, some habitual condition or even an existence of someone in our daily life is also give the same influence as drugs. Being needed by someone, chat with ur fren, being called three times a day, or even cheating to ur partner or even for some psycho to kill is also give the same addiction..(so scary rite heh?).
Being addict it mean causing someone to demand these addictive existence and never get enough of it, you juz, want it more and more. There are some adrenalin that is rising up every time, this kind of thing happen.
But what if, the thing that we are addicted was love or perhaps an existence of a person in our daily life. I was kind a remember an old movies, "Addicted to Love" which there were Meg Ryan and Matthew Broderick on it. Meg ryan was so addict with her boyfren, so..em when she was being dumped, by his boyfren, she was juz lose control, and wondering why on earth that she was being dumped. So, she started to stalk his ex..OMG..is this kind of thing happen? in our daily life, well...emm..i guess..i heard a lot of story about it..this stalking stuff.
Is it love that causing this kind of an addiction or it is juz an obsessive impulsive of someone that causing it? The feeling of could not have something that we are eager to have it, it is like give us some curiosity, asking some question which started with the letter of "W" ..Why..Why..and Why..
To being addict was hurtful, but to let go of it, it is more painful, like drug, i guess. But, coz it was a person that we are addicted to, so we can not bought in some street, or there are no free trial for it, no one will give it away, so we have to deal it.
Love addiction, have you ever been in that situation? or am i have this kind of addiction already? hmm..i wonder...

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