Is He the One?

In every our love relationship we always search for the one. Nevertheless, I have one question, when will we know?

Some said that, you just knew, if he comes to your life you just knew. You just believe he is the one. You find your pair, your soul mate, without asked too many questions.

I’m a kind of person that always a false alarm about a guy or maybe I should call the one. Well, not every time actually, maybe one or two.

On my last relationship, it was reach some point that I think I found the one. He was fit with my own creation of hope the kind of guy that I’ve been looking for all this time. When it was started, I even asked some questions “Is he for real? Is he meant for me? Is he faking it?”

As fast as the relationship goes (so fast …and it is very fast), when I’m finally open up and get fall deeply….boom…. it was turned back, up side down 360 degree, backward and even forward, he showed he was not the one. He changed his own sweet package that he sends with his own way.

My sweet mistake, but I’m the one who was choosing to believe him, so I had to let go, and never felt regretful for what I had done, it was the risk that I should take…sigh…

So, mmmm ... are you the one? Not…. I guess...

Love is Just a Game

yup...so true..love it is just a game, it is can broken all the same..

seperti seorang sahabat baik pernah bilang, dengan formula yang sama, kita tidak pernah tahu endingnya apa, berakhir karena apa... coba dan mencoba.. jatuh bangun.. jatuh lagi.. bangun,,, lagi.. cape ya...

Dengan formula sama kita akan terus mencoba...dan coba lagi...

but is is a learning process i guess..selama hidup yang kita belum tentu akan pernah lulus.. so i will keep trying to play this love's game..coz kaya prinsip gue we are never know, and it is always ..jadi harus keep trying aja .......

Is it better knowing everything or not knowing anything?

Pertanyaan itu muncul dikepala gue, ketika gue mendengar cerita seorang teman yang baru saja mendengar perkataan jujur dari pasangannya, She was shock, She admitted. Lebih kepada dia tidak siap untuk mendengar hal yang tidak ingin dia ketahui, meski mungkin dia tahu tapi tidak mau tahu. Tapi mau tidak mau harus dia ketahui dan sadari, karena masalah itu memang ada.

Kejujuran memang butuh kerja keras, bagi yang akan bicara maupun yang mendengar. It is not that easy, untuk kedua pihak. Karena terkadang kejujuran can be painful even tough it can be fun for both side depend on the news and circumstances. Jadi mungkin untuk beberapa orang lebih nyaman untuk tidak mengetahui apa-apa, hanya tahu yang indah-indah saja tapi dengan konsekuensinya kita kaget dibelakang. Jadi, seakan tutup mata saja, hear or see no evil, and prefer to accept a white lie than the truth itself.

So, is it better knowing everything or not knowing anything? Mau kaget dibelakang atau didepan? Tough choice ya..